=( glad you got away!!! that is really freaky and i totally get it. it is so frustrating when another person warps your own reality and twists it - for me it began to make me question what i really knew to be true. I knew i wasn't making it up, but the other person would then tell everyone else we knew and ... it just can be so overwhelming and confusing.
I hope you're safe out there and taking steps to maintain your privacy from him... clear your computer cache and make sure he's not hacking your info. I don't think it's paranoid at all. Hopefully you can break free of all his negativity and stop the fear that keeps you trapped.
Kiya