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He says guys watch porn and it’s normal and the only reason he used Snapchat was because he didn’t want me to see it on his phone and get upset.
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In other words, he is going to use porn whether you like it or not, and he is going to hide it from you because he doesn't want you to know about it and call him out on it (what he calls "get upset").
Unless he changes, you can "trust" that he will continue indefinitely to use porn behind your back.
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Is watching porn while in a relationship normal?
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Here is an idea: you could ask on the women-focused support forum how other women feel about their partners using porn.
To me, though, what matters is that (a) it upsets you, and (b) he evidently doesn't care enough about your feelings to stop doing what upsets you, and (c) he is willing to lie to you about it.
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Is it weird that it upsets me this much?
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Not in my book. Your feelings are your feelings and as such they are valid.