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Originally Posted by unaluna
Geez, doesnt this guy get to have any PRIVACY? What are you giving up for him? Maybe orgasms arent important to you, but does he have to stop having this part of his life, just because you dont? Who died and made you the Pope? I dont agree with anybody here. He is responsible for his own pleasure, you are responsible for yours. Sometimes you share. You are not the boss of him. He is not the boss of you.
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If this is a standard that is important to the OP, then it is a factor in her relationship. I would not be in a relationship with a partner who a) spent that much time looking at porn, and b) lied about it.
Your standards are different than other people's standards. It isn't about being "the Pope" (which is insulting to anyone who has a personal preference against pornography). Not everyone in this world is into porn. Entire relationships, healthy ones, long-lasting ones, exist without porn.
It also isn't about "being the boss" of anyone. It is about basic compatability which involves shared values and mutual trust.