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Originally Posted by Have Hope
Thanks @ TishaBuv for your thoughts! I think everyone will have a different type of response to the issue of porn within a committed relationship. It's a subjective issue, really and very much individual. To some women, it may not bother them one bit if their partner views and gets off on porn. Some may also participate with their partners in it. Many women are bothered by it though, and I've seen it online being expressed too many times. I am glad it's not an issue for you. For me it's a big issue. |
One time, my husband went to a bachelor party which was, of course, at a strip club. I was amused when he came home and said that he had a lousy time because the women in the club kept going on about how much money they made and that their cars were nicer than all the guys’ were! He was too jealous to be aroused, lol.
If you’re from a religious culture, though, those men probably don’t look at porn or go to strip clubs. They are forsaking all others and that is important to them. It’s not a struggle to find a partner with the same values as you to start with, rather than trying to change one who doesn’t share those values.