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Feb 01, 2020, 04:59 PM
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Member Since: Apr 2014
Location: Home
Posts: 8,406
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Originally Posted by Embarrassing
I’m still here! All of my posts take awhile as I am a new member and they must be reviewed ! I do appreciate everyone for sharing their opinions with me. I knew from my online research that was is a controversial topic and lots of people feel it is totally okay while many others disagree completely. I guess I was hoping to see how others would feel in my situation and maybe get a few tips on how to talk to my bf about this topic/ how to work on building trust ( if there is a way?) like I mentioned earlier this is my first relationship so some times it’s just hard for me to tell what’s normal problems vs what’s unhealthy. Everyone in here has definitely given me a lot to consider.
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In the ene you have to decide what's right for you. You know how it makes you feel. And you know he doesn't respect that. Do you want to marry someone who has lied to you and made you feel bad about yourself? Seriously consider that. Perhaps it's something to work through, but I wouldn't want to start a marriage that way.
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Primary Dx: C-PTSD and Severe Chronic Treatment Resistant Major Depressive Disorder
Secondary Dx: Generalized Anxiety Disorder with mild Agoraphobia.
Meds I've tried: Prozac, Zoloft, Celexa, Effexor, Remeron, Elavil, Wellbutrin, Risperidone, Abilify, Prazosin, Paxil, Trazadone, Tramadol, Topomax, Xanax, Propranolol, Valium, Visteril, Vraylar, Selinor, Clonopin, Ambien
Treatments I've done: CBT, DBT, Transcranial Magnetic Stimulation (TMS), Talk therapy, psychotherapy, exercise, diet, sleeping more, sleeping less...
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