@bpforever1: I find it is better to be alone than with the wrong person. You deserve someone who will treat you with respect and affection. Stay strong! It's not for everyone, but i find my dog really decreases my longing for a man. Snuggling with her gives some of the sensual pleasure of a man. I still find myself talking to a man in my head, so i'm still wanting a man who would listen. It's beyond all reason. I'm 53. It gets easier with each passing year. PM me anytime if you need a boost re your commitment to resist this bad man!