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Originally Posted by Have Hope
@ TishaBuv, my point on here is that the OP originally stated it makes her feel insecure and like she's been cheated on, which are very valid and real feelings she should not ignore or brush under the rug just because certain members here believe that porn is OK and acceptable. She should make up her own mind about it, and also honor her true feelings about it. |
One, please stop misquoting me in your posts, whether or not you were referring to me in particular in this one. I dont do that to you.
Two, this is comparing apples and oranges. He has a right, she has a right. Only, his is an action, hers is a REaction. What self-initiated ACTION would she be willing to give up because it makes him insecure, or because he doesnt LIKE it? THAT would be apples and apples.
Some couples are together who have different political affiliations. They dont insist the other change, nor do they split up, but i would think they do make each other uncomfortable, insecure, or even disrespected in this area.
Unless you want to say that porn is a SIN or some sort of absolute wrong of which you are the arbiter/Pope, in which case i would say, this is why they dont let the Pope marry
