Una, I refuse to argue with you, so please stop trying to argue with me, huh? I am trying to help the OP. Please keep in mind that this is not a personal debate about our different stances on porn. This is about the OP's feelings on the matter. By continuing to debate with me and argue with me, it's not helping the OP in any way. You're not respecting the OP's feelings that it DOES make her feel insecure and uncomfortable, which is what she originally stated. Stating that she's acting like the pope is insulting to the OP. Please just let it go and focus on trying to help the OP, and not on me or what I've written. You're arguing for the sake of arguing.