Hope, only the first paragraph in my post was addressed to you. The remaining 3 paragraphs were directed to the OP. Sorry if that was unclear. I am not "arguing" with anyone. I am just stating my own life philosophy.

Stating that she is acting like the pope is not an insult to anyone. Its a way of looking at the relationship between two people. Moreover, here i was saying that this is why the pope does NOT marry - that one half of a couple should not have the power of decree over the other. That is Shariah law, if i am not mistaken.