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I've been trying to stay out of this because it hits too close to home for me.
Could we not debate the pros and cons of porn? The OP posted about her feelings regarding a behavior her boyfriend has that she is uncomfortable with. What if we changed the behavior to something not controversial- say stamp collecting. The OP tells her boyfriend his stamp collecting makes her feel uncomfortable and insecure. He promises to stop, but continues behind her back. She finds out, he refuses to talk about it. My example is silly, but the point is he lied, deceived her, then refused to talk about it. Those are all danger signs in a relationship.
To the OP, hon your feelings are yours. Don't let anyone tell you what feelings you ought or ought not to have. It's up to you to decide whether or not you can live with his behavior because he has shown you that he is not going to change.
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