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TishaBuv
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Default Feb 02, 2020 at 06:58 PM
 
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Originally Posted by Have Hope View Post
What's also interesting to me: my husband told me that porn is really bad for relationships because the man starts thinking of the porn while he's having sex with his partner. For me, that is most unsettling. I don't want my partner imagining porn scenes or another woman while he's having intimate and supposedly loving sex with me. That just creeps me out, but I'm sure it happens, probably more often than we even know about.
Mine told me he is visual and only is in the moment there with me. I’m not sure I truly believe him. My low self esteem maybe. I am there with him, but I also go somewhere else in my mind. I have intimacy issues. It could come from a sexual assault from when I was younger. I think I dissociate tbh.

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