Thank you for the post that supported me to stay away from the abusive man. I am doing that. I met some pen pals online. One was from France again but I told him I was not interested in long-term relationships. The other man is a orthopedic surgeon in the place where I am moving. We are still chatting about each other. I think we will be pen pals for awhile. I am not in a hurry to meet anybody yet. I am moving next month. Thank you all for your support!! I am feeling well. lol, the orthopedic surgeon told me he was based in Afghanistan. Yeah right!! blocked him for life!! Well, he was fun to talk with but I am not a sucker anymore! Back to reality again!