TOTALLY. When young, I realized that the moment I even thought about taking a one on one intimate relationship seriously, I began to unravel and act like a crazy person. Over the years, I realized this came right out of my childhood which made me unable to trust my own judgement, and, more upsetting, a realization I couldn't tell what was me and what was the 'other.
What I suggest is something I did not do and that is to talk with a trusted friend about it to get an 'outside' view (when I did this, rarely, it really helped, I wish I had done it much more often---just rarely occurred to me in the midst of turmoil (thinking I was too crazy and everyone would say so...
(not). If a woman, talk to other women. It often turns out you do have a legitimate concern that is not being responded to in a helpful manner, you sense the unsaid and....(I think some of us become exquisitely sensitive to things unspoken)…((((((((((((((((((((((((((hug)))))))))))))))))))))))))))