Yeah... That's not accurate, and doesn't help at all.

I said I pursued and dated her.

This is unbridled eagerness that she's never felt OK to let free before.

Couples counselling.... That will only take months....

In the mean time, if she feels rejected it will hurt her.

And you actually completely missed the point that she's feeling like this because we had a breakthrough moment that changed her perspective and feeling about herself and about our relationship, and I'm trying to keep it. It's a positive thing to feel secure and wanted.

If you just showed up to say "SEE! That's what it's like!" then don't comment.