Okay, so like one or two times, my girlfriend has asked me things about past girlfriends, and it has made me uncomfortable because never has that turned out well for me, and never has it indicated innocuous motives. She says it helps her feel like she knows me better or is more connected to me, etc. But I wondered to her why she would need more than whatever she's experienced with me. And besides not feeling comfortable with it, I feel like any time I'd share anything with her, she'd be using that to judge how I am now. I mean, I feel that is unavoidable. She keeps saying it's just curiousity, but then when I say I don't want to talk about whatever it is, she feels like I'm hiding something?
What do you think?
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