If you like to argue in order to be right, that would mean your opponent would be wrong. Who likes to be wrong all the time?
My husband said to me yesterday, “You just want to fight with everybody.”

i really didn’t think that was true. I just want them to treat me with love. They don’t. It angers me. I tell them off. Now I want to isolate, too.
I’ve had relationships in the past where we got into a flirty, play fight that got us both hot and led to great sex. I like that kind of fighting. It never got mean. It was just saucy.
What kinds of things do you find yourself fighting about? Why does the other person not agree with you and argues with you?