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Originally Posted by Chuck62
So I'm 2 months into a breakup that's tearing me apart because of my codependent traits. She is narcissistic and now that I'm used up financially and emotionally she left me to live with her daughter 3 hours away from me and I am going out of my mind. She had told me that we could work on things maybe if I moved there so I start making plans. Then she gets me to Loan her money a week ago being very nice and understanding. Now she wont pay it back and I need it and is restricting our communications. She text me tonight that she was getting a home massage and then going out to dinner. She is seeing someone I believe already and it is tearing me apart inside. I am going crazy thinking about her being with someone else and I dont know how to stop it. PLEASE SOMEONE GIVE ME SOME TIPS ON WHT TO DO TO MAKE IT STOP. BEFORE I DO SOMETHING STUPID LIKE DRIVE DOWN THERE.
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You might do two things. One is to read up on the damage that people with narcissism do to others, and two, resolve to never, ever, ever, ever give someone money ever again. That may not sound like the quick fix you think you want and need, but for me, it really did help for me to read as much as possible about narcissism--and if you don't like reading, youtube videos will give you the same information--there are several well-qualified people on Youtube offering excellent information.