Hi @corgidogs I'm sorry you are having to go through this with your granddaughter, and I am sorry your granddaughter is in so much pain. Hopefully being at the hospital will help her. Some are great, some aren't. Unfortunately all you can really do is support her by telling her that you love her and being willing to listen to her. Don't be judgmental towards her and don't tell her to just stop cutting as that likely won't work. Just try to be there for her and be a support for her. Does she have a therapist? Is there a teacher or another adult that she trusts? They might be able to step in and help. I hope things improve soon. HUGS Kit