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.....he turned out to be a pretty nasty piece of work...... He has given me the money to fix my door (the he broke).

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He doesn't seem all that harmless to me. It sounds like stalking to me also. If you haven't already been very direct with him, as in "Look, I am not interesting in your presents. I am not interesting in having anything to do with you. Our relationship is over, I do not want you calling, speaking, or showing up at my work again." If he makes contact with you after that, call the police.