This is just a general observation I've made over the years. It seems like some of the ways you can tell someone is not as close to you as they are to others, or they don't like you as much as they do to others, is if they are in a bad mood, they want nothing to do with you while they still talk to others. Yet, if they are in a good mood, they are more willing to talk to you.

Also, just in general, the way they treat you as opposed to how they treat others can determine if they feel as close to you as they do to others. It could mean they don't like you as much or it could also mean they just don't feel as close to you. Has anyone else made this observation? I think this is a sure way to know how someone sees you. I'm not saying it's a bad thing. We all feel closer to some people, while feeling distant or even have a dislike towards others.

The reason I believe this is one of the ways to know for sure is because I've heard some people claim that just because someone refuses to associate with you when they're in a bad mood, yet still talk to others, does not mean they don't feel any less distant from you as they do to others. I believe they do feel more distant just because if they felt close to you as they did to others, they wouldn't ignore you or refuse to associate with you when they are in a bad mood, yet still talk to others that are in the same room.

I think it speaks volumes. Again, nothing wrong with that. We are all like that in a way. This is more of a general observation. This is most likely to happen between coworkers and acquaintances, as well as those who don't like each other as much. It can even happen when someone who is in a bad mood sees two friends they have but they're much closer to one than the other. So they may naturally choose to only speak to the one who they are closer to. It may seem kind of rude, but I think it's very common and a lot of people are like that. Has anyone experienced this or noticed this? Again, just because someone chooses to not talk to you when they are in a bad mood doesn't mean they dislike you, it could mean that, but not always. It could just mean they don't feel close to you so at the current moment, they don't want to be bothered.