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Originally Posted by LilyMop
@ Access Denied
Yes that is one way of looking at it. Maybe the person going through the hardship is the one pushing people away versus the other way around. I find it’s hard to know when someone is truly pushing me away versus just going through a hard time. I spent months reaching out to a friend recently and finally gave up. She rejected all of my efforts to reach out to her so I finally concluded she was rejecting me. Human behavior certainly is complex and confusing. I’m sorry you’re experiencing burn out with your job. I definitely understand why, at the end of the day, you aren’t too excited to talk to people anymore. |
I hear you @
LilyMop and thank you for your insightful comments.
So this may not come as a surprise to you that today I came close to resigning my medical career. Instead, my Chief offered me to go on sabbatical instead of sickleave, for burning out after being dreadfully overwhelmed.
I accepted his offer. but retain my job as a GP. Only where I go
after my sabbatical is only for me to decide, though the decision will be based on my family because they come first above
everything. My intention is focusing on growing the bond with my family. They already are close to me, for our love for each other is primarily love, caring and empathy; but to anyone else apart from my Chief and the young people I work among in London, here I remain cold-hearted and not the slightest bit repentant.
Given time I hope you find what you are searching for and overcome being so cruelly shunned. I'm no stranger to broken relationships, but it remains in our power to prove our doubters wrong.
