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Originally Posted by Discombobulated
Respectfully I would like to say you should make preparations to move away from this situation- how little can you get by on, can you do a lesser well paid job for a while? Can your husband help out more? That sort of thing.
I personally would take what you wrote here as a warning that you are very stressed and need to take care of yourself. Reframing is helpful but when feelings are this extreme I think it's time to make a change.
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Thank you very much. I tend to outpour my feelings when they are most extreme, and then my feelings fade or back down a bit. I'm not feeling exactly the same way today. I am feeling better. Today was a better day at work.
I really cannot leave or take a lower paying job. My husband and I are barely making ends meet on what we have as it is. I just cannot afford to leave.