This saddens me to read. I can imagine the anger you feel especially because this is your husband, not a opportunistic boyfriend. I agree this is abusive sexual behaviour. It is forceful and does not respect your boundaries or how helpless it makes you feel every other night when you anticipate him helping himself to your body. I am so sorry sis ♥️

This is not the expression of love you signed up for when you made your vows. This type of love leaves so much scarring because it affects your own self-worth and your confidence and integrity as a woman. It also makes you start hating any kind of sexual intimacy because you associate it with oppression or silencing your own needs.

I can’t say what you must do going forward, this is your life and your decision. I believe he is a great father but an oppressive lover. This behaviour May well lead to a sex addiction and then cheating/affairs with other women. So if you decide to work it out, just know that if he doesn’t get psychological help, it will spiral into infidelity and deepen the separation between you.

I am so very sorry again. But I believe every struggle we are given, we are also given the strength to overcome it. So be courageous with this, don’t ignore anymore red flags. You will come out more peaceful and more in love with yourself. Blessings ♥️