Hi,

I've come to place in my own life regarding these kinds of observations, rdgrad15, and I just think, accept that people are kind of distant, can't see the real you - which they can't - and just try to feel comfortable with the distance you see and feel. I don't think people really think too deeply about how they're effecting others with their ways.

You can turn that to your advantage too - in knowing that you can see them better than they can see you.

I hope I've interpreted your post correctly.