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Originally Posted by mote.of.soul
Hi,
I've come to place in my own life regarding these kinds of observations, rdgrad15, and I just think, accept that people are kind of distant, can't see the real you - which they can't - and just try to feel comfortable with the distance you see and feel. I don't think people really think too deeply about how they're effecting others with their ways.
You can turn that to your advantage too - in knowing that you can see them better than they can see you.
I hope I've interpreted your post correctly.
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Oh I agree. Yeah, it is best to accept that people aren't going to be as close and also won't care how they affect you. I know some people that can't understand this concept and get so offended if they see that someone is not as close to them as they are to others. In some cases, yes, it may be due to a personality conflict, but in other cases, it's just how it is. Yeah I do see it as a form of advantage when you can tell if someone doesn't seem to be as close to you as they are to others. It prevents you from getting hurt. You know not to pursue them so therefore, no hurt feelings can arise. Yeah sorry if this post seemed confusing. Usually I provide examples and I'm referring to someone specific but in this case, it is more of a general observation towards anyone, not a specific person.