I am so sorry, TishaBuy! Personally I don't see anything wrong with you asking your Son if he's ok or not. I would take it as a sign that my Mother cares. My Mother often asks me that, in fact, and I often have no problem with it. I'd have avoid writing the second part too as well, though. As for your husband, perhaps he's saying that just because he's afraid your Son may take it the bad way? Perhaps it wasn't really directed at you but more at him. I am not sure. Sending many safe, warm hugs to BOTH you, @TishaBuy, your Family, your Friends, your Son and ALL of your Loved Ones! Keep fighting and keep rocking NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, OK?! .yourock: