Well I had posted here a while back about starting with a new therapist and how scared I was about going.
I of course cancelled the 1st appt, well it did snow that night and I just couldn't drive the next morning. But still, it took me about a month or so to book the next appt again, but I did it.
I was nervous so I had someone drive me so I didn't have to worry about that as well.
Now that I've been I'm not sure if this is the T for me.
Did any of you feel that way after your first session? I just do not feel we connected at all. Yes, some will say that it takes a while to get to know each other but I have been to others where we basically clicked right away. It didn't happen this time.
This T was so busy typing things into the computer that everytime I started to say something, she said..."wait a minute, I will just have to interupt you later if I don't get this in here." Now, I just felt that was somewhat unprofessional, especially since I thought I was there to talk and explain some things??? Am I wrong? Was I expecting too much? Am I impatient?
I am upset because I cannot see my previous T anymore. She doesn't accept my new insurance and that is so depressing. She was just great.
I have another appt this Monday. I WILL go and see what happens but Im already wondering what to do if it doesn't work out. (I then have to try another T from the same group and that seems a little awkward to me!)
Any advice would really help me out. Im going because of severe anxiety and panic issues, so having to worry about this already is becoming a problem!!! (I just can't stop thinking about it, ugghhh!)
HELP...