I mentioned this to my mother, who is a woman who is very close to age 60. She said that there would be no way in bloody hell that either she or any other women whom she has known would ever bring up such a topic at a meetup, especially amongst total strangers. She grew up in the exact same place that I did, right here. Except several decades ago.

I am not sure what is going on, because apparently it seems like only within this bubble of a radius of perhaps 100 km/60 miles do people seem to talk like this. And then when you leave that radius people are very different, i.e. more normal like other places.

In any case, I just find it weird, at least way too coincidental that somehow anytime I want to try socialising/meeting people here, this topic just pops up out of nowhere.