Unfortunately over the years I have read about this many times.
I think you honestly need to have a discussion about this. He has no right to touch you in this manner unless you consent and want to be intimate.
Having different sex drives is common enough.. but compromises can be made.
If other wise your marriage is healthy and he shows respect and truly loves you then this situation can be handled easily.
He can certainly pleasure himself and not touch you.
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