Well I had a male friend back in my late 20’s ... we use to hang out a lot and we also had a night of probably too many drinks and cuddled in bed. Come morning I was conflicted about news of this getting out to our friends so I did ask that we kept it to ourselves, a secret.. we explored whether or not to actually get involved over fir probably close to month ... we finally decided it was best we stay friends only. We are still friends.

So just because she wanted it as secret doesn’t necessarily mean for ever. I see it on social media all the time date number 2 and people are updated status to in a relationship, not everything in life needs to be rushed.

My advice spend more time together and just see how it goes.