There's only one thing T does that I am aware of that annoys me. I told him about this last week and he says he knows it annoys me. (But he is not going to stop doing it.) However, this male ego state I have, with whom I am not in contact all the time, has told me tons of stuff that T does that annoy him. That was fascinating! For example, he is annoyed when T repeats a joke or anecdote he's told before. I have always found this rather endearing, and I like to hear the jokes again. The mind is a weird thing!