I haven't seen my boyfriend in a few days and I feel less close to him, and sort of detached. It's making me feel really panicked as I sense he feels less close to me too. We sometimes send each other x's, but I sent him some in my last message to him and he didn't send any back in his response.

I realise I sound really neurotic but it really has me in a panic. Once I feel a slight bit of distance I worry that it's over. But maybe it's normal to not be lovey dovey all the time? Maybe I'm totally overthinking? I can't tell.

I wish I didn't have BPD, so that I could feel normal and secure in relationships.

Any reassurance or advice would be appreciated. Thank you.