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Originally Posted by bruhbruhbruhbruhbr
There's a lot of detail to this so ill just list in bullets - He’s known the coworker for ⅘ months
- Finds her unattractive (she is)
- Would sleep in the same room/floor (open concept)
- Has been at her house till 4 in the morning
- Doesn’t get why this would upset me and tried to change my mind
- Because of our schedules, we can’t see each other over 2 times a week, one of the days being Saturday, which we usually spend all day together. He just informed me he’s spending it w/ her drinking bc she isn’t available another day and told me “what’s one day?” when I explained why that hurt (discussed and resolved this the day before this situation arose)
- Turned his location off after our discussion
- Her body language is very towards him
- She’s single and very shy, has very few friends. He’s very attractive (told so often)
- She is nice to me
- He’s a recovering addict and she would help him access drugs
- He gets along better with females and has many female friends
- He is very loving towards me and is not a flirtatious person
- She is low on money, but because she willingly stepped down from being a manager and took a pay cut because of stress
- I fear emotional cheating more so (e.i. Seeking emotional support from her more than me) as well as her passivity inviting more chances for him to relapse
- Not sure he can afford to move out
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I would dump this guy because he is cheating on you and I would file a complaint against her at her job for sexual harassment and buying drugs for your boyfriend.