I am doing good.Yesterday my narc sister lied to me about something important to me so I blocked her,I have cut her out of my life completely and am no contact with her.I am happy about it.I have not lost a sister I have lost an enemy who has caused me a great deal of harm and at some stage actually tried to kill me.So it is a gain not a loos,I am happy,I feel free,liberated and I feel safe and strong.In the past I would have felt abandoned and lost and fearful if this had happened that I'd be unable to survive.I was very vulnerable and she use to slam the door and walk away as if she had abandoned me forever then she would suck me back in to use and abuse me again.Now I am the bigger person and can walk away and not care,I know she is a bad person and always harms me and abuses me.So I had to cut her off and go 100% no contact and protect myself from interpersonal conflict and abuse.I did the right thing and I am happy now.So I am coping well today.
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