I just want to say:

I know there is a lot of stigma with a BPD diagnosis.
I am very concerned about anyone with a BPD diagnosis feeling hopeless.

I want to let people know that there is a lot of hope for recovery. I have seen two friends totally transform their lives by learning to apply DBT and mindfulness to their lives. It took them a couple of years of ongoing classes to "master" the skills. It was amazing to see the changes in them and in their lives! They just keep getting better and better!
Don't give up!