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Old Apr 11, 2008, 08:04 AM
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My first sessions with my T were awful. I questioned constantly my decision to keep going for at least 3 months. However, something always made me end up driving to the appointment. I say listen to your doubts, work through them, if in the end you don' t think it is working for you, find someone else. You mentioned that you've had another T that you liked, so you have a nice comparison. I say take it day by day. Work through your doubts and concerns. If there are things you can clearly identify, like the typing while you are talking, raise the issues with your T. If the situation doesn't improve, then move on.

For me in the beginning I was making the stay or go decision out to be this major monumental decision. When you really think about it, it simply isn't. If done properly you can choose to discontinue one week and then change your mind and start back 2 weeks later. Both you and your T will survive.

Please don't see this post as minimalizing what you are going through. I was stuck here for MONTHS, it sucks!

Good luck.
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