I was diagnosed with bipolar II but I am sure I have BPD. I worry about so much. I can't give anyone or anything time to work itself out. I panic at every little thing. The "wait and see" does not work for me. If I get the idea that my husband is mad, in danger, or any negative thing, I panic and feel I have to react now. I don't have any advice. I just understand your feelings.

Usually, what I panic about works itself out fine, and I feel like an idiot for worrying so intensely. I hope your worry works out fine and your boyfriend is just acting like any sane adult. I also hope you can be gentle with yourself either way. ((Hugs and support))