We have not had sex in a year and a half. She left me once for 90 days(she was at her mothers' place). We've been together for almost 30 years, married 26 years. I love sex. I love sex with her. I think she argues with me to avoid having sex, I dunno. She says sex is all I want. Is it normal to deny a guy sex for that long because he's not intimate? She says this is the reason. She says I'm rude, disrespectful and controlling.
I don't want to be, I want a happy life with my wife.