Well ... because we live on messenger together I know the struggles you have

The truth is Granny is no longer safe to live alone. She’s lucky your there.. you buy the food and make her true meals... if you didn’t she would live off junk food and maybe frozen meals. So you might not be paying an actual. . Rent “ you spend plenty on food and taking her out and to doctors appts etc

As for your axxzhole relatives I think you need to just be totally blunt with them, I know that’s hard for you... maybe collect your thoughts and email them ??? Surely granny would have needed a nursing home in the past year and o think she would just give up on living if she were placed in one.

I do think you should get on section 8 housing waiting list.. maybe you won’t need it but it’s probably 2+ year wait list.

Ahhh medical debt that is just a reality of being a human being, we that need mental health services will rack up more debt especially if we need IP. Your doing well with making monthly payments, I have lots of debt out there I literally can’t pay, one day I’ll wind up in court.

I think you need to see if there’s anyway to combine the debt and be able to make a smaller overall monthly payment.. I should look into that also

Your striving to get a degree that will certainly increase your pay.

I’m happy that you are working parttime , college courses, being active with your church, being there for granny, cooking and cleaning. So you are Doing ALOT ! So keep that in mind. Talk to Matt about ways to work towards easing your ongoing stress.

You got this my friend ! I love you