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Old Feb 10, 2020, 10:08 PM
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Originally Posted by BirdDancer View Post
I'll try to be brief, for a change. I visited my father today. I thought about doing it today, but was almost skipping out until he called, asking me to come. So I went. I actually had the best visit with him that I've had in a very long time. He was attentive and seemed not only better than recently, but better than I can even remember. He spoke frankly about his fears and concerns. We had a real serious conversation, but also reminisced about pleasant times, too. I wasn't nervous during the visit, and when I departed, he seemed so happy that I came. I sent my sister an email about today. I didn't mention to her that I told my father how wonderful, brave, and strong she (my sister) has been this past year. Honestly, I don't know how my family would have managed without the leading role my sister has taken.


On a lighter note, I've developed a silly habit of pressing my finger against an area above (to the left of) my chin. I do this so much, without realizing, that a red irritation has developed. I put some cream on it, but I have to stop the habit. I guess it's a pretty piddly issue, comparatively. I used to grind my teeth all of the time, so badly that I eventually needed two root canals, and my front teeth are much shorter than in my youth. The teeth grinding has stopped...at least for now. There's always something!


I’m sitting here with a smile. I am so happy that you had a wonderful visit with your Dad .... long time coming ! Will always be a great memory

Ugh anxiety habits like your dealing with are just plain hard to stop. Hope you can heal quickly
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