I think if you marry him and have children, yet bring the children up religion free, what happens to your own beliefs and religion? Do you suppress that even further for the sake of the kids? How do you practice your own beliefs in that kind of relationship dynamic? It seems like you would disappear and disintegrate a large and important part of yourself for the sake of this relationship. To me, that's unhealthy.
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