Ohhhh if it were only so simple and black and white. No illness works in a straight line, even physical ones. Everyone is different.

No 'order' of symptoms are right or wrong or more or less indicative of Bipolar Disorder.

I know you have a diagnosis of BP-unspecified, but you also have relied on on-line tests which are notoriously ineffective. As I've said before, I think your best bet is to get a pdoc for diagnosis (again, not in one visit), and a therapist who might help to direct you away from your identity becoming so subsumed under the diagnosis of this or that MI.

I wish you the best of luck in your journey.