I am so sorry, Hallie, that family is does not recognize all you have done and are doing. I am so sorry they do not support you.

I have a very similar situation with my mom. There is little acknowledgement for all I do for/with her, as far as siblings go. There is very little support. I am older than you, so I have had more time in life to try to accept these facts. It is still hard at times, though. We do what we feel is right, regardless of what others think. Sometimes, doing so can be a lonely road.

It sounds like you are also giving some consideration to possibly an eventual move into section 8 housing?
I hope this works out for you if this meets your needs. I have been disabled for many years now. When first disabled, I had sought out section 8 housing. I had two truly wonderful homes with that assistance.

Keep us posted. We are here for you!