If it's any consolation, I had a dream about you last night Rhapsody (which is odd, considering that I don't know what you look like!). Do you ever watch The Office? The guy that plays Jim - I'm not particularly attracted to him, although I do think he's cute - he and I were launching into an affair, and I heard him get into a fight with Pam (the receptionist and his love interest in the show) because she wanted to move in with him and he said he "wasn't ready". Well, she and I found out it was because he was already living with YOU! So there - you ARE wanted, and by a coveted guy!

Ok, it was just a dream and he's not your husband, but I though I'd share.

I do think you should have tried to sit with your husband when he asked you to so nicely. Although I also understand feeling so hurt that you couldn't help but dig in your heels and pout.

I'm sorry he reacted like that, Rhapsody. I can relate a bit to how he feels, because I NEVER get any alone time in my house, but there is no reason that he had to be so blunt about it. It was very inconsiderate of your feelings, and I'm sorry that he hurt you like that