Hi,

One thing that helps me mitigate the whole idea of this so-called 'two-facedness' in people, is to ask myself "do I speak ill of people too?" And if you're an honest person, then, your answer might be, "Yes, I do, sometimes" - don't lie.

Generally speaking, try to accept as people the way they are - try not to be so unforgiving[?] No ones perfect but if a person has love in their heart? That's always something to gravitate towards.

Accept the good with the bad...

Does that make sense @rdgrad15?