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Originally Posted by susannahsays
If it's not the first time you've felt like this about a woman, maybe you're not heterosexual. It's ok if you're not, you know. I'm definitely not trying to define your sexuality for you - please just be careful that you aren't pathologizing sexual feelings towards women due to internalized homophobia. That would be an easy trap to fall into.
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Thanks for your reply. I really don't think I am gay OR homophobic - it's more the fact the last woman I felt like this about was also someone in perceived authority, so I think it's more a role model thing that becomes sexualised in my mind. I am definitely attracted to guys. I was just trying to work out why these feelings are so strong in this particular case, but there is a lot about her that I think I want to internalise in an emotional way.