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Old Feb 12, 2020, 08:13 AM
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Originally Posted by winter4me View Post
I think of anything I tell someone as information I have given them...I hate (and rarely have) to ask anyone to keep a secret so, I guess that what I say is theirs to do with as they will...then I am not upset if I hear that someone said something they heard from someone who said....
(and, yeah, I have been guilty myself...)
I think I see where you're coming from. So you mean, you basically expect anything you say to be spread around to others whether you like it or not? In that case, I can understand. I am that way. I basically expect it to happen since it's very hard for most people to keep secrets. In some extremely serious cases, keeping something a secret can actually get you in trouble too which is also why people may talk. They may be protecting themselves from getting in trouble.