Hi McKell,

I haven't read it but will try to get to it over the weekend.

In general for me, I try to focus on how to feel better and what makes me feel and function better rather than look at and define what is wrong with me.

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me and my real relationships

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Do you view your relationship as a real relationship? If not, then that is probably why you don't depend on T.

Peace