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I've been told on several occasions by various people in my life that they refuse to argue with me anymore because it distresses them.

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That makes sense.

I am just saying there must be people out there who do like to argue otherwise you’d not find anyone to argue with. People either find it distressing or not interesting for them so they don’t want to argue, but some people might enjoy it like you do.

Some couples actually like drama and seek conflict. I find concept of make up sex ridiculous but it seems to be somewhat common?

You just have to find like minded lovers of a fight lol there are out there. I’d not worry about what’s normal in a relationship but just focus on finding right match. That would be “your normal”.

I’d warn against raising children in argumentative household as it’s not healthy for kids but two or however many consenting adults could fight to their heart content!