Hey @Affliction: What are you doing for your sobriety? Everything else aside, one partner cannot get sober if the other partner is in active addiction. And if they manage to get sober, the relationship really cant last with one person actively drinking or using and the other person trying to stay sober. I am an alcoholic in recovery. My husband understood that part of the deal was no alcohol in the house. If we go out somewhere or socialize where there is alcohol I am in a place where I can handle it but I do not want it in my face or house. My husband realizes that my sobriety is more important than an occasional cocktail for him and has no issue with this. He really isnt a drinker anyway.
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